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Interpersonal refers to our relationships and interactions with other people. A Legacy can be complicated by interpersonal issues that arise during the transition process.
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Manipulation can be defined as any attempt to sway another person’s emotions to get them to act in a specific way or feel a certain thing.
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SAYING “I’M SORRY” is an act all too often overlooked in our daily interactions and there can be many obstacles that keep us from saying these simple words.
Some may see it as being weak or giving-in if they admit that they are sorry to someone else. In reality, it often takes more courage to be the one to go first and you might find that the other person feels the same way.
It is also important to express that you are genuinely sorry and care about the other person, promising to make amends and not repeat the mistake . . .
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DISRESPECTFUL and rude comments are difficult to deal with when at work or in a social situation. But can be even more difficult and personal when it is a family member sending you the negativity. As family, we know each other best, not only how we like our coffee or our favorite ice cream flavor, but also our weaknesses, fears, and vulnerabilities. It’s often family members that can love the strongest, but also hurt the worst. This familial bond can make it more personal and the option of walking away may not be possible . . .
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ANGER as one of the basic human emotions, as elemental as happiness, sadness, anxiety, or disgust. Anger is related to the fight, flight, or freeze response of the nervous system; it prepares humans to fight. But fighting doesn’t necessarily mean throwing punches; it might motivate persons to combat injustice by changing laws or enforcing new behaviors. But does anger have a place in an ag legacy?
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TRUST compels us to act based on our perceptions of another, in other words an individual’s belief in, and willingness to act on the basis of the words, actions, and decisions of another. It is much easier to lose trust than it is to build it up. It is important for families, as well as individuals, to be proactive in their efforts to develop and nurture a sense of trust within the family. That foundation of trust also carries over into a family business. Understanding the factors that can affect trust in a relationship is a great place to begin to understand how to build, or rebuild, trust.
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Death is a natural part of life – for most of us, talking about it isn’t. Most people are uncomfortable talking, or even thinking, about what will happen when they or a loved one dies. Avoiding the topic doesn’t stop death from happening.
Planning for pre-death issues and possibilities before the time actually comes will free both you and your loved ones to spend time doing the things that are really important during your last days. Other considerations and issues you may want to address, include: life-sustaining treatments, where to spend your last days, care of dependents – minor children, an elderly parent, or relatives, foster children or adults, or possibly a disabled friend or family member, and care of animals, either pets or livestock in your care.
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Establishing and maintaining healthy relationships between parents and adult children is challenging at any stage in life. This is especially true during times of change. It is important that the generations work together to make relationships satisfying rather than strained. Today, increasing life expectancies mean that family members will spend more time in intergenerational roles requiring negotiation and understanding in dealing with change.
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Where a break in the lines of communication has already occurred, forgiveness may be the only path forward. Luckily, granting forgiveness is something we can learn to do and we get better at it with practice.
We will all leave a legacy whether we plan to or not. You might consider forgiveness if the legacy you leave behind is more important to you than making sure that you keep the conflict going to the bitter end. Remember, forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself and your legacy.
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Farm and ranch families experience stress from a wide variety of factors, including: 1. operational stressors, 2. environmental influences, and 3. family stressors. Most factors are out of the families’ control, potentially adding even more stress. In addition, the lines are often blurred between family and business issues, making efforts to address them even more difficult.
Stress factors can and often do affect everyone involved in the family farm or ranch business, even if they are not directly involved in day-to-day operations. A variety of coping mechanisms can be employed to help address or mitigate the effects of these factors.
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